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That's
because somehow the act of writing in this way brings out the truth. After
all, it's between you and the page, no one else gets to see it. And once
the words are there on the paper in front of you, you feel different,
lighter, less concerned and more able to bring about a resolution where
necessary.
At
almost every session I've ever led there will be someone who feels they
don't have much to write. Yet by the end of the session it's likely they've
written the most. It's their reluctance to see written on the page in
front of them what they're carrying in their heart that they resist. Yet
I'm reminded of the expression: what we resist persists. And by writing
past the resistance I've seen people leave sessions and workshops walking
feet taller and pounds lighter.
Try
this: Think of a person who brings
out a strong emotion in you - perhaps the thought of them leaves you feeling
angry or jealous. Make time for yourself where you know you won't be disturbed
and sit down and write them a letter. Write exactly how you feel and don't
stop to consider what you're writing. Don't worry about your spelling
or even if it's legible, simply write as many pages as you need. And when
you finish, sign it with your name. Add a PS or two, if you wish, then
sit back and congratulate yourself.
Don't
send the letter. You don't need to.
You've
got all that pent up emotion out from within, so destroy the letter. Repeat
as necessary!
Sallyann
Sheridan and Mary Wood's book The Magic of Writing Things Down
is available now
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